Tipping is out of hand in the U.S., with tip jars
showing up in far too many places. And that little
screen you sign for your credit card starts at 18 percent
for a tip, even if you are ordering takeout. One of our
subscribers, Blake Hottle (Culver City, CA), wrote, "I
was in a Starbucks to pick up their pretty good instant
coffee for our next dive trip. When I used the credit
card scanner, I was shocked that the default setting
included a 20 percent tip. You had to delete the 20 percent
tip manually. Unbelievable!"
Ten percent seems like a sensible standard, but
generally, our readers tip a bit more.
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But tipping on dive trips is another matter. American
divers generally tip well and usually apply at-home standards.
As we wrote in the last issue, most travelers from
other countries have a different view of tipping than
Americans; they tip far less, and when they do tip, they
do it to honor good service. Perhaps for good reason.
"Europeans are much less demanding than Americans,"
Rolf Schmidt of the Sinai Divers in Sharm el Sheikh told
us.
Mary Dieringer (Boston, MA) wrote, "I enquired discreetly
around my last American-based liveaboard dive
group and found the three or four Canadians and the
German couple did not intend to tip at all, even though
perfectly happy with the service, but, while not embarrassed,
they thought it best to keep quiet.
"I don't think of myself as stingy, yet I deeply resent
both the extra expectations of Americans and groups
of Americans regarding tipping and their "noblesse
oblige" attitudes. I think we are changing the no-tips-expected
cultures of many regions for the worse; I've
heard from Europeans that they can now encounter bad
attitudes when they don't tip in areas where it was never
before routine.
"While many crew and service workers overseas
earn very low wages, when I pay for an expensive tour,
I think the tour and vessel operators should compensate
their workers accordingly and not expect passengers to
supplement wages. Worse, the hierarchy of tips division
means the lowest paid get the least in tips, so large
multi-hundred-dollar tips reward the captains and owners
the most. Even if you try to tip your cabin boy separately,
he will hand the tip in to the captain as a matter
of course."
It's impossible to judge whether a foreign dive operator
pays its staff well, but when divers pay $6000 for a
week on an Indonesian liveaboard (where the average
wage for workers is somewhere around $75-$150 per
week) or in the Philippines, which has similar wages,
they would expect the crew was paid properly. Fifteen
divers on that liveaboard would produce $90,000, so if
divers tipped ten percent, that leaves $9000 to be spread
around a crew (and probably office staff). That's a lot of
money.
For many divers, it's difficult to determine whom
to tip and how much. Complicating that is what
Lynn Morton, who runs dive trips, learned. "I won't
do business with a company that isn't fair to all its
staff. I learned first-hand about a dive boat where the
Caucasian boat host and captain took 90 percent of the
tip money, and only 10 percent went to the dive crew."
He said, "White people need more money to live here."
While this myopic self-serving fellow would have
been wiser to say "foreigners need more money to live
here" (which isn't necessarily true), he did raise a red
flag about favoritism in pooling tips. An operator may
say the money will be spread among boat and office
staff, but does the guy who fills the tanks and cleans
the toilets get as much as the dive guide or the office
manager? Does that Australian guide get as much as
the Indonesian guide? Do men get more than women?
Who knows? It's nothing the tipping diver can control.
So, how should divers tip? We recently asked our
readers for their views on dive tipping, and here is what
they had to say.
What Trip Leaders Do:
We received emails from two Undercurrent subscribers
who run group trips. Ken Kurtis of Reef Seekers says
he builds the tip into his overall price. "I generally aim
for about 10 percent of the cost of the diving portion
of the trip. My Reef Seekers groups have become known
as good tippers, which usually results in better service
from the resort or boat staff, and that results in a better
trip experience for my guests." Some of his divers add
another $20, $50, or $100 if they felt they got great service,
which is better for the crew overall.
Lynn Morton of Deep Travel suggests that her clients
"tip 10 percent of the retail cost of the resort or boat
trip. I don't insist, I suggest. Then I tell them that if
they had a fabulous time and really loved their stay, tip
more. I almost always have the boat hosts or dive manager
thank me for the generous tips."
It seems like a sensible standard, but generally, our
readers seem to tip a bit more.
Safety and Hard Work are Rewarded
To many divers, tipping is mainly about their safety.
Dan Fazekas (Hilton Head Island, SC) says that "tipping
is a great way to express appreciation for doing an
excellent job. Americans have their own ways of tipping
servers, hotel staff, etc., but they are not handling equipment
and dealing with potentially life-threatening situations,
so those guidelines do not apply to diving.
"Our rule of thumb for a week-long trip, concierge/
valet service, where they set up and break down gear,
rinse, dry, store, and carry gear, is [to tip}30-35 percent
of the cost of our diving. If we are diving with different
captains and crew, we will tip daily; otherwise, we will
tip in cash at the end of the week. This number may
seem high, but most dive staffs are not particularly well
paid. If we are just diving with the operator and handling
our own gear, we are tipping 20 percent. Finally,
if things are not meeting expectations, we do not
express our disappointment by withholding tip money.
We will ask the divemaster or crew why they do things a
certain way and perhaps offer suggestions.
There's a distinction between the dive and hotel
staff, many of whom you never meet or even see.
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Kevin McCarter (Golden Oak, FL) agreed. "Safety
is the #1 consideration for me. Most operators pay an
appropriate amount of attention to safety. I tip a minimum
of 20 percent for the dive crew."
Robert McCarthy (Grafton, MA) told Undercurrent,
"In the U.S., we are expected to give 15-20 percent to
someone serving us a hamburger. How could we not
give more than that to someone who has our lives in
their hands? If the dive shop charges $100 per day, I try
to give at least $25 per day to whoever is in the water
with me. More if they are particularly informative."
The Suggested Tip
It's common for operators to suggest a tip; most
say it's to identify an "appropriate tip" to make it easy
on the traveler. But is there such thing as a norm or
customary or appropriate tip? One would suspect that
a suggested trip would be as much as "the traffic will
bear." In other words, how much can an operator get
out of travelers before they feel offended? Perhaps one
can't blame them for seeking as much money for their
staff as possible. But that doesn't mean you have to take
their advice.
When aboard the Aqua Cat, Steven Davidson
(Midland, GA) says they "asked for a 15 percent tip at
the end of the trip briefing, explaining that it was the
industry norm." Regardless, he says he normally tips 10
percent. "The trip cost $3200, and I left them a $350
tip."
So, we don't know what "standard" or customary
tips are other than they're an imaginary way to set a
standard. The truth is our readers set their standards
for their own reasons.
Robert Bodkin (Bremerton, WA) routinely dives in
Truk Lagoon. His tip is generally based on 10 percent
of the charter cost, rounded up to the nearest $100.
This amounts to about $800, since he stays for two
weeks.
Dianne Knitter (Garden Grove, CA) wrote, "On
liveaboards, I tip 15 percent of the trip cost if service
is good, and usually that is pooled to cover all staff. I
tip divemasters extra, especially if the service is good.
My last trip was 15 days with the same divemaster and
I tipped him an extra $100 on the side. I am an older
diver, so good service is important to me."
Veteran diver Sally Herbert (Copperopolis, CA) told
Undercurrent, "On the usual liveaboard 10-day trip, I
normally tip about $400 to $500 into the joint tip bowl
depending on how flush I feel."
On the other hand, John McTigue (Rockport, MA)
says, "I don't pool tips unless asked. I generally tip the divemaster, helpers, and cook on a liveaboard ... $50 or
$100 each on a week trip, $20 to $50 on day trips.
Jim Harris (Fort Worth, TX) generally tips 10 to
12 percent of the liveaboard price. At Cocos Island,
he was asked by some less-well-traveled European divers
what a typical tip was. He said around 10 percent,
and "they thought my answer was outrageous. I talked
to the head divemaster, who just smiled, acknowledging
it was a touchy issue. He told me, 'People should
tip what they're comfortable with, but we love it when
Americans are onboard!'"
Tipping at Dive Resorts
On a liveaboard, your dive guide might also be
your meal server and baggage handler, and you get to
know the chef and the person who cleans your cabin.
If you're at a hotel or a dive resort, there's a distinction
between the dive and hotel staff, many of whom you
never meet or even see.
For diving, some readers tip a percentage of the total
cost, but most tip on a per-dive basis. Many tip daily,
not just at the end of the trip.
Douglas Peterson (Naperville, IL) says, "Diving East
Grand Cayman recently, we each tipped $5 cash per
tank. We always give the tips to the boat captain at the
end of each boat trip, making sure other crew members
notice it. And we tip every boat trip because crews
change every day. In less developed countries, we usually
tip $10 cash per tank to friendly, helpful local dive
guides in poor economies. But if a crew is particularly
stand-offish and doesn't seem to care, we have no problems
with no tipping, no matter where."
Most readers seem to tip between $5 and $10 a tank,
some more. Blake Feamster (Tulsa, OK) says, "The
standard recommended on St. Croix is $10 per tank."
Patti Jenkins (Santa Fe, NM) agreed. She wrote,
"Generally, I tip the boat staff $5 to $10 a tank. It depends on whether an additional crew on land is
taking care of your gear. I tip them separately. Even
though a country's website says tipping is not a norm, I
have found that dive company personnel are hoping for
that extra thank you."
Kevin Feor (Rochester, NY) says, "On charter boats,
especially in Cozumel, I will tip the boat captain and
guide (even if the guide is the owner), $10 to $15 per
day, depending on how proficient they are."
Bob FitzGerald (Ottawa, Ontario) believes, "For a
divemaster in, say, Roatan or Barbados, it's typically something like $10 for the first day and a bit less for
subsequent days; a full week might be $50."
"In Cozumel, my wife and I tip $5 per tank, so $20
total for the two of us for a two-tank dive," says David
Hollabaugh. (Fulton, MO). "It goes into a tip jar to be
split between the DM, boat captain, and mate. I always
ensure the DM sees me put the money in the tip jar so
they know who is tipping."
Murray Firth (Barrie, ON) reckons, "It was pretty
standard with my group and the places I went that $5
per dive was typical. But, as I age, I need more assistance
on and off a boat, up onto the gunwale for a
back-roll, lifting a large BC with integrated weights into
a boat, more valet-style services, etc., so I increased my
tip to $10 per dive. I do not tip operators that have a
mandatory gratuity added to their bills."
John Kirkenir (Skillman, NJ) wrote, "I tip the divemaster
every dive, usually $20 each for my wife and me.
I also tip the boat every day or every other day, some
$10 per day. If service has been exceptional, I'll give
some extra at the end of the trip."
Kevin Darnell (Wichita Falls, TX) does both. "We
typically tip the diving staff 15 percent of the bill or
$20 for a two-tank trip."
"Generally, we would tip guide dives individually,"
wrote Paul Moliken (Portland, OR). "Wakatobi Dive Resort and Dive into Lembeh distribute envelopes to guests
for tips. Tips are divided among the dive staff from one
envelope and the service staff from another. One member
of the dive staff nearly demanded a tip at Lembeh,
making it uncomfortable because the owners said no
individual tips [should be given]."
If management tells you not to tip individually, we
think it's best that you follow their policy. Your under-the-table tip could cause an employee to be fired.
And, if you tip individually for the hotel services,
don't forget the people who scrubbed out your toilet
and changed your sheets.
A Perfect Tip Pool
Blake Hottle (Culver City, CA) wrote, "At Taveuni
Dive Resort in Fiji last fall, they had a nice system. It was
a "School Fund, Christmas Fund" where all the tips
were aggregated and shared evenly among all the staff.
VoliVoli Beach Resort did a similar thing."
He added, "And while tipping for other things in
the U.S. has gotten completely out of hand lately, I feel
compelled to help make sure that the people preserving
the reefs in impoverished areas of the world are making
a decent living."
So far as we know, that's a common practice in Fiji resorts.
Tipping Isn't Always Effective
Undercurrent's senior editor, John Bantin, recalls a millionaire
friend, on vacation in Barbados, habitually and
generously tipping upfront, saying there'd be a second
$100 at the end of the day if he got good service.
The friend could never understand why those he
tipped disappeared and never came back until Bantin
explained they went off with the first $100, got drunk,
and took the rest of the day off.
And How Much Should You Tip?
Don't let tip anxiety fill your last day with dread.
You don't have to match the big tipper, you don't need
to make up for someone who isn't going to tip, and you
don't have to meet management's "normal" standards.
Nor do you have to disclose how much you tipped when
someone asks. Tipping is a voluntary action for you and
you alone. Tip as much, or as little, as you're comfortable
with. Tip what feels right.
- Ben Davison
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